Human Design, see yourself
Human Design shows where and how we connect in ALL types of relationships
Family Friends Pets Work Lovers, ALL is shown
I use http://HumanDesignAMerica.com for charts and then here are some books and decodes to get you going. No money required below are the decoder tables and a book or two.
All is available free on inet. search Human Design and whatever it is you wish to know
Richard Rudd is one worth looking at.
The red is sub conscious the black conscious
each shape colored means defined, a specific set of traits, not colored, where a person is influenced by another
Gates are the numbers and channels are when 2 numbers or more connect.